Beginner’s Safe Bondage Guide: Essentials for Newbies

Welcome to your first step into bondage.

Whether you’re curious about restraints, collars, or light power play, safety and consent are non-negotiable.

This guide is written for complete beginners — no judgment, no assumptions.

Always use a safeword (e.g., “Red” = stop, “Yellow” = slow down).

Discuss boundaries, limits, and aftercare before any play.

Never tie anyone who is intoxicated or unable to communicate clearly.

Avoid cheap cotton rope that frays — opt for jute, hemp, or nylon bondage rope designed for the purpose.

Leather cuffs and collars should have quick-release buckles or safety snaps.

Never use household items like scarves or ties — they tighten unpredictably and can cut off circulation.

Never tie around joints or the neck without training.

Keep safety scissors within reach at all times.

Check circulation every 5–10 minutes (press nail beds — should return to pink quickly).

Aftercare is essential: hydration, cuddles, emotional check-in.

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